Leadership Versus "Ordinary Pewed Members'' Masters -Servants? Who is which ?
Saturday, August 29th, 2009I am not Much into theology of man ,but am somewhat interested in the subject of some of today’s more conservative Mennonite Church Leadership Teams versus the ‘Regular’ Church members,setting politely in their pews.Why is there often this big divide between them ?Is it performance,or is it duty that is the impetus,of it all ? This thing is happening all over the Mennonite World,not just in our area or yours.Who or what is the head of any Biblical Church ??
The thing that is most disturbing to note,is that for some of these ‘Leadership Teams” that Their purpose seems to be upon themselves,and somehow they have mesmerized themselves,and some of their “Subjects’..I’m sure this may not apply to all of the ‘Teams’ out there,but there is a heap of them in that shape.
If we lose a vision that Christ really is our head,we get in trouble,and the fruits soon tend to show that sorry state, or spiritual condition.Things do clarify a bit when we ask the simple question.”What would Jesus Do?”.possibly not all of what passes as religion in today’s plain Churches.
An unbalanced ‘Team’,without that much Godly guidance finds itself Sometimes Moving and acting behind the scenes,accountable to no one,perhaps not even to God.Some of these tend to not only monopolize your public worship,but move in on the homes,usurping the Parents’ responsibilities..This last one bothers me the most,to hear of.The Father’s and Mother’s responsibilities to their Children,no one should come between that,or even try to .
These ‘Leadership Teams’ that run some of these Churches,are they Biblical in purpose or in results ? The good news is that if these “teams” are not of God they will at some point self-destruct in spectacular fashion ,and that is always.I will not here use the “L’ word,which is not in the Bible ,but is so often freely and boommingly used by these leaders to describe their ‘ordinary’ and lowly members.
I’ve heard several one-sided monologues over the years from behind shiny pulpits as to why the speaker and his ‘Calling’ needs to be so highly regarded,and held to such a high esteem,with no mention of the Humility that is mentioned too,in Scripture.Oddly this is usually done by visiting Preachers .Is it Truth ?
My feeling is ,that a good start may be to take that big pulpit out to the parking lot and offer it up in fire.
In the old Testament, things that got between peoples of God were often offered up just like that.Come out from behind that thing,then we may get somewhere,if it is in Humility,
I have never had many problems or been on the receiving end of these ‘Teams’ ire.Some I have heard about have.A lot if not all these Brethren that are sometimes so firmly in Charge are nice people,but when they get involved with this ‘I’m in charge,you’re not” thing,the results often are not that pretty.Is it Truth?
So,let’s get the ‘Leadership team’ thing into perspective.Who really is in Charge ?.The below link has some very Christ-like attributes,At least in our perspective.This thing is causing tension all over the land,wherever there is a Plain Mennonite or Beachy Church,it seems.
We recently came out of a Plain Mennonite Church where this Leadership Versus Member thing got out of hand and still causes much confusion.We do not plan to address the specifics of this particular turmoil,at least not here,or now.
I like, and miss chatting up our Preachers in that Church.We just could not move along in the same direction we as a family, were headed, while there.Also,we left before all the action or seemingly endless drama,which we are very grateful for.We feel that was by the grace and leading of the Lord.(The early exit).
A commonly operated Conservative Mennonite Church is run by what is often somewhat ‘Pountifully’ referred to as a ‘Leadership Team’.This usually consists of 3-6 members,with different titles,all which are important sounding.And they tend to run it all,all the decision making in a Church.And instill their influence as far into their lowly members’ lives as they can reach.They also tend to evolve sometimes into a self-serving entity.(We intend to look good & sound good,at all and any costs ).But is it Truth ?.
Slight of hand can sometimes be used to assure that Members ‘vote’ the right way at the right time.The more conservative the Church,the tighter the little core group tends to appear in charge,to the Church.Church functions like Weddings,Baptisms,even Communion Services can even become a sort of Dance of “”Look-at -what-I-am-itis” for leaders who are Carried away with themselves.Hopefully this condition is quite rare.
The word ‘Appear’ is a relative word here.Like all exclusive little clubs,these often have to contend with age old evils.And several of those Evils are Pride and Envy.As in Pride and Envy within the ‘Leadership team’.
That is to be expected,if you worship yourself,which is a definition of Pride.Hold yourself above others ,and God may withhold his blessing and Truth from You.Then look what happens.
Now,Pride is something we all try to deal with.It seems to be often there,young and old.I struggle with it,and surely some of you do too.The other thing mentioned seems much more insidious,with more evil consequences to result.And what, may we ask, causes Envy,especially on a ‘Team’ that is supposedly religious in nature?.The simplest expression is that it’s the flesh.Almost certainly not Truth.
It may start small but always grows quickly unless dwelt with.Maybe the other guy is a better speaker,and even keeps the ordinary member’s attention,and awake.It could be a dozen different things that could set it off.But when once started,it’s very clear in Proverbs..”.Who can stand before Envy ?”.The answer to that is ,no one can.And then bad things happen,and it’s good to be far away from it.
Envy has possibly caused more Church Troubles Then Anything else.Running a very close 2nd,or 3rd would be the effects of Moral issues.(No,we won’t go there today).We’re talking about in the ‘Teams’,themselves.And also, what is hidden will always come out and be exposed at some point.Immoral issues carefully hidden away ,without being washed by the Blood,continue to carry a lot of baggage.That is Truth.
The Leadership Member or members on a ‘losing’ side ,often either move away,starts a new group near by,or is even expelled.The unfortunate thing about that is that the ‘leaving team Member’ ,is often as not the Spiritual one.So the Church staggers on with the remaining ‘chaff’ leadership.They soon replace the departing member,being very careful to try and get a malleable replacement.But is that Truth ?
the Idea of servant hood in a Church often slips away,unnoticed, in too many of these ‘Leadership Teams’.They walk different,talk different,dress different,hold themselves above ordinary Church Members,and before long somewhat have an induced God-like aura about them,especially from behind their thrones.(Pulpits).At some more self-elevated Churches ,the Pulpit is off limits to ordinary Members.Is that Truth ?
Another Sign that things may be cooling ,or are cold,is when Volunteers are discouraged or severely restricted.That in itself is a Control measure,often an attribute of a religious cult.All organizations and Churches Tend to do well to foster a Volunteering atmosphere to involve more folk.Where the Volunteering spirit is discouraged ,other problems quickly surface.That is just the way it always is.
Also ,what is a sign of Humility in Leaders or for anyone who is a believer ? That in itself is debatable.It may be easier to consider what are signs that humility is lacking or slacked up on.Here is a recent explanation I have heard.
”A lack of Humility is signaled when one’s own suggestions or Ideas are almost always preeminent,in one’s own mind and actions.” In other words,Thanks for your thoughts,but your Idea is immature and not worth pursuing.My Ideas on the other hand,are brilliant and are thus and thus,and thus..When this is found in a Leader,the damage is Magnified.(Not magnificent)
In the late 90′s we visited a very large plain Church in the State of Pennsylvania.I was astounded at the huge somewhat sullen crowd of members,and the seeming total coldness of the Church service itself.The “team’ sat behind the pulpit in a regal fashion,almost like Gods.(the team members themselves were nice and congenial,after the service)..The whole experience made me shiver because of the Cold Spiritual tone.I predicted to several of my friends there that something ”really bad” would happen there soon,as in my thinking that carrying on had to be a stench in God’s sight.
Within a year there they had the awfullest falling away one could imagine.Up to 80% of the ordinary members left,in separate directions,scattered to the winds.The odd thing was that the ‘team ‘ stayed intact. The way I understood,they brought a like-minded fence mender in to smooth things down.I think they are still going on somehow today,and hopefully the lord is with them,though one would wonder about that.If they haven’t dwelt with their problem,whatever it is,it’s still there.Was it Truth ?
While we are on this unpleasant part,let’s survey several results of this type of leadership.A dictatorship sometimes evolves at some point,in the ”Leadership Team”.It usually is the ‘Bishop’,that ends up as a superior’ ”God figure”,though it can be any dominant member who manipulates well,a de facto uber leader.By a dictator,we mean that everything,any rule approved or anticipated,starts with one person.And it really is just a person. .All the members of the ‘Team’ are usually Ordained to their office,whatever it may be.
Some gullible (easily fooled) folks assume that an ordained person is absolutely anointed by God,so whatever he says is God speaking.I have heard that said just like that.But is it Truth ?
We would contend that an Ordained Religious person may have been anointed by God or he may only have been appointed by man..So,anointed or appointed,which one is it for whomever,and how can we mortal beings tell ?
We don’t know,but I do know of one who does Know,and that is God.And He is not telling us,at this time .And that should not ,and will not affect the Greater work of the Church,the Bride of Christ.a Church that is far greater then we can ever imagine..”Without Number”,as noted in Revelation.And that is Truth.
And so,what is the role of an ordinary bench -setting Member in a Plain Church ? Is it to set in Church and admire the walk and talk ,and performance of the Leadership,and believe every word he hears from them is God speaking to us? That exactly can and does happen.I once listened to a Grandfather,who should know better, express his admiration for the local “Team’ like this,in a Plain Church Service testimony.
“”I love and appreciate each of the Ministry,each of their Wife,and each and every one of their children”.(End of his quote,I’d say he covered his bases right well,for worship of man.)
I have heard it said that there is a Mennonite ‘Bishop’ in Florida who wrote in an article ,or a book that the Church is as your Spiritual Mother,And your local Bishop is like your Spiritual Father.Now admittedly that is hearsay.I don’t personally know the man,but if that is quoted correctly ,he may need a week or two on his knees,
All right,now on to us ordinary members who sit in the pews,and do the hard work,(listening up),what’s in it for us ??What is our purpose,besides filling the pews ,and putting the offering in?or having it lifted off us, as we say.
Well,one quick mention here of the Plural Ministry most plain Churches have.Jesus did give us the examples of sending his followers out to minister in teams or in groups.as equals ,as servants sent for the greater good of the Kingdom of God.In humility,a desirable trait anywhere.How did this get corrupted as a ‘Leadership uber all angle”?Humility and servant-hood,as Christ Commanded from the ordinary Member’s perspective,would be much more fitting and encouraging..Is it Truth ?
The Ideal and Scriptural setting,it seems like ,would be to have a single Ordained preacher of some talent,and a calling,to preach,and then have the brethren of the Church take care of the other matters,and sometimes preach too,If inspired to.After all,most of the Christian Churches do operate just like that.And the observation of the writer is that very rarely is an Ordained person very up-to -date on “worldly” matters,or wisdom like that.(Financial ,trouble shooting,etc)
The thing about an inspired message is,that it’s from the Lord,about Glorifying God and him only.If we could figure the total hours wasted by the Thousands of ‘Pewed’ members ,trapped into listening to Man-centered Preaching,we’d perhaps be surprised.
I myself have listened to far more then I cared to,like that.Just Once I would like to hear a preacher say…”"Folks ,the Lord didn’t give me a message today,So let’s spend our time in Song and praise”.
No, even if there is no message,they will usually plow studiously through a long list of notes,delivering something that may not rise to the ceiling,certainly not to the Glory of the Lord..
So change is needed,And we feel that this type of Change is coming for Anabaptist Churches in the future.It will about have to,to restore credibility and Biblical authority .Admittedly,This has been tried some and often does not work,because Volunteers seem to dry up for many duties within the Church.The Preacher gets frustrated and asks for more ‘Team’ help,and then soon for more.Before long you may have the “”Full dream team” ,and maybe all the pomp ,and high-mindness that can come with it,may follow.It reminds one of the Federal Government,it gets so big it finally appears to be serving itself first ,and then only itself.Is that Truth ?
We would boldly suggest here that the New Testament really has very little to say to back up those of our “Religious Kings”,which may exist within our far-flung circles.Of the gravity of their own self importance.In fact,Jesus spoke and taught about those who love to be addressed publicly in a spiritual setting.He roundly condemned it and them.The example of Our Lord Jesus is still the one to follow ,the only one at that.His Life was totally Blameless,and Service Oriented.Yet he had no Pride.Or Envy either.That was Truth.
Aside from Titus & 1&2 Tim. ,and the very beginning of the letter to Phillipa,Which are pastoral writings.The entire remainder of the NT,especially the Gospels, speaks almost entirely to the whole Church,and to all believers.Together and indivisible.When it does speak to the Leaders it is always in the context of Servant hood & Humility and stewardship,which are rather strange words today to many such.Here is the link to the Best Article on that subject I have found.Print it and hand it to a preacher when or if he is done patting himself on the back too much.He may point out 10 ways why it isn’t right,just remember who it’s addressing.
I once heard an older story-telling Mennonite Preacher tell this proverb.”"If you throw a rock in the Pig-pen,it’s the Pig that is hit that Squeals loudest”.I like that one though I Rather doubt it’s in the Good Book.
Here is the link.It rings like Truth,and Truth can set us all free.
http://www.christianity.co.nz/church7.htm
(Only about 1 of 20 people reading this ,seem to be reading this link.Why? Maybe we have all return readers.maybe the counter is wrong.Maybe my humble effort is more interesting then the link.hardly)
The leadership subject in the above linked article is much better written & Thought out then our own humble efforts to that subject.If through our influences we can encourage one person to Approach The Holy One in True Spirit of worship,We’ve succeeded in our effort here.
This above linked article has a lot of points to upset a ‘Leader’ that is perhaps more full of himself then he is of the Holy Spirit.Hopefully those are rare, maybe I’ve never met one like that.,I wouldn’t know or pass that judgment, but I do know one who does know,and will pass true Judgment, in due time.
The Above linked article has the best definition I’ve ever read of the Episkopeo or the ”Serving as Overseer” Passage.I’ve heard this explained several times by big timers with big egos and even bigger words,but always doubted their thinking,and motives.(Never ask a Butcher what he thinks of a Vegetarian).
Also I’m sure there are hundreds of humble Plain Preachers out there whose “Fruit”,is the fruit of the Spirit,..They may tend to be younger,and still study the Bible a lot.Maybe even have the serving servant spirit.They may be in it as a Jesus centered life.May they continue,and not be corrupted by a “Leadership Team uber all” Spirit.
The answer to the top of the page question is..It’s all about Christ,and the Truth.
Also,try randomly asking a Church Member you just met.”Who’s the head of your Church ?” Surprisingly Often the reply is a Person’s name.
We’ll leave this for now.We realize we may not agree with everything this Above link’s Anglican writer puts forth,Some of it we would not see as truth at all.But on this subject he scores well and rightly.In his biography part ,it notes that he enjoys chopping wood,sounds like a good man to me.
Jess Wagler May 18- 09
May 28-09.the word ‘Pewed”,comes from the Anglican practice of paying for your pew.That is to support the Church and pay the preacher ,it seems.It would have it’s advantages ,it seems.You’d have a guaranteed seat.
Also we are intrigued by all the ‘Voting’ done in supposedly Anabaptist Churches,Where every-thing’s voted on but the weather,and that’s well discussed after Services.My general feeling by much observation is that the more a Church Votes,the more confusion is sown,over a period of time.The excuse for all the ‘Voting’ is that it’s by Spirit led peoples.What Spirit though,one wonders ??